To all the beautiful women in the world

Sameeha Shaad
March 8, 2019

WOMAN. What comes to our mind when we hear this word? The deep loving eyes of my mother, an everlasting beauty in my grandmother, the elegance of my favourite school teacher, the naughty expressions of my little sister, the grace in the stride of the lady professor, the white clad nurses at the hospitals who are epitomes of empathy... are a few that come into my mind. The beautiful soul that she is, she deserves all the good in this world. Unfortunately, we still live in a world where the woman is a product, a means of recreation, an advertising strategy, in short- just another thing for the fulfilment of man’s desires. We still haven’t been able to overcome the usage of the triad-money, power and women. There is no better example for the materialization of woman than what she is now.

In the deserts of the Middle East, the situation was no different. Around fifteen hundred years ago, the Quraish women were oppressed and treated as objects, with no identity of their own. They were made to dance around naked, to please the men of their times. We all are very familiar with the rampant female infanticide and foeticide, among various other evils, that was prevalent during the time. It was only after the advent of the Prophet(S) and the rise of Islam that the women rose to a high status in the society. They were defined with a new sense of pride, respect and dignity. Their role in the society grew to become very important and their opinions were regarded highly. History brings forth to us great personalities in Khadeejah (R), Aysha(R), Fathimah (R) and many others. Those Sahabahs were epitomes of good character, knowledge of the Deen was at the tip of their tongues. They earned the respect that they received. Thus the status of women in the times of the Prophet(S) was remarkably high.

Today, we are living in a supposedly modern era where we see women rise in every field possible, she is not a footstep behind man in this highly competitive and dynamic society. Women have become more independent, she has all the rights that were a luxury a few decades ago, she is at equals with man in every aspect. On the other hand, we still see women being treated as objects of entertainment, and many women unknowingly or knowingly fall trap to it, thereby showcasing their beauty and their bodies for the whole world to spectator. Adultery in all its different forms has devalued the pious contract of marriage, and families falling apart has become too rampant.

Does it mean that women becoming independent and self-sufficient always comes with a loss of balance and thus leading to all the outrageous family scenarios that we see today? No. It is high time that women realize that they are being made use of for others whims and fancies. Coming forward in life does not mean that we should give in to the ridiculous norms that have been set up in today’s world. Being independent, active and happy can always be done in our own way, not by losing our self-esteem and dignity in the process. Lastly, whenever we feel a little lost, we always have the history of the great Sahabahs to look up to.

The writer is a Mangaluru-based medical student and a member of the Girls Islamic Organization.

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December 17,2024

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Prime Minister Narendra Modi Tuesday condoled the death of environmentalist Tulsi Gowda and said she will remain a guiding light for environmental conservation.

In a post on X, he said, "Deeply saddened by the passing of Tulsi Gowda Ji, a revered environmentalist from Karnataka and Padma Awardee. She dedicated her life to nurturing nature, planting thousands of saplings, and conserving our environment."

"She will remain a guiding light for environmental conservation. Her work will continue to inspire generations to protect our planet. Condolences to her family and admirers. Om Shanti," he added.

Tulsi Gowda, the renowned environmentalist and Padma Shri awardee known as the "Vruksha Maate" (Mother of Trees), passed away on Monday at her residence in Karnataka’s Honnali village, Ankola Taluk, Uttara Kannada district. She was 86 and had been suffering from age-related ailments.

Hailing from the Halakki tribal community, Tulsi Gowda dedicated over six decades of her life to environmental conservation, planting and nurturing thousands of trees in Ankola and its surroundings.

Her unparalleled knowledge of plants earned her the title "Encyclopaedia of Plants." She was credited with growing lakhs of saplings and was celebrated for her unique approach to nurturing them, ensuring their survival and growth.

Born in 1944 to a tribal family, Tulsi Gowda developed a deep connection with nature at a young age. She began working at a forest department nursery as a daily wage worker and eventually became a symbol of afforestation.

In 2021, Tulsi Gowda was honored with the prestigious Padma Shri, one of India’s highest civilian awards, in recognition of her immense contributions to afforestation and environmental conservation.

She received the award from former President Ram Nath Kovind, a moment that brought her years of silent work into the national spotlight. Additionally, Dharwad Agricultural University conferred upon her an honorary doctorate for her knowledge and contributions to the environment. She also received the Indira Priyadarshini Vriksha Mitra award and numerous other accolades throughout her lifetime.

 

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December 10,2024

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Bengaluru: Karnataka has declared a holiday for state government offices, schools and colleges on Wednesday, December 11, in the wake of a state funeral for former chief minister S M Krishna, who passed away in Bengaluru on Tuesday.

The last rites of Krishna, 92, will be held at his native village of Somanahalli in Mandya's Maddur taluk.

A government order stated that the holiday would apply to private aided educational institutions too.

Besides, the government has declared three days of mourning (December 10-12), during which no public entertainment programmes would take place, while the national flag would fly at half-mast.

S M Krishna passed away at his residence on December 10, 2024. The 92-year-old veteran politician was ailing for quite some time, a family source said.

A charismatic leader with a modern outlook, he not only laid a strong foundation for the growth of IT and BT industries in Karnataka but also managed to get them onboard with the government to build “Brand Bengaluru” at the international level.

He held several prominent positions throughout his career as External Affairs Minister, Maharashtra Governor, Chief Minister of Karnataka, Speaker of Karnataka Legislative Assembly and Minister in the Karnataka government.

Although known for his tech savviness, flamboyancy, style and the Western outlook, the Congressman-turned-BJP senior leader was a hardcore Bengalorean who loved the city’s trees and flowers. SMK also had a love for tennis. Even when he was Chief Minister, he would visit the tennis court to play the game two to three times a week. 

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December 16,2024

Mangaluru, Dec 16: A tragic incident unfolded at Someshwara beach on Monday when a woman, participating in the Pinda Pradhana ritual for her late brother-in-law, lost her life after drowning.

The deceased, Usha (72), was the wife of the late Jagadish Bhandary from Derebail. She had traveled to Someshwara with her relatives to perform the ritual for her brother-in-law, Karunakar Bhandary, who had passed away recently.

After completing the ceremony, Usha and her relatives went for a sea bath as part of the rites. Tragically, Usha slipped and was swept away by the strong waves. Though her relatives cried out for help, locals who rushed into the sea could only retrieve her lifeless body. She was declared dead when brought to shore.

Usha had retired after a 40-year career as an assistant secretary at the New Mangalore Port Authority (NMPA). She is survived by her daughter.

The body has been sent to K S Hegde Hospital in Deralakatte for postmortem, and a case has been registered at the Ullal police station.

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