Domestic violence drives newly-wed woman from Karkala to end life

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October 10, 2013

Reshma
Karkala, Oct 10: Unable to put up with the cruelty she was subjected to by her husband and in-laws, a newly-married young lady committed suicide, here on Wednesday.

The deceased is Reshma (23), the only daughter of B M Iqbal, a retired Syndicated Bank officer. She committed suicide by hanging herself from the ceiling fan on Wednesday.

Reshma was married to one Asif from Hangarkatte on June 9, 2013. It was second marriage for both of them.

Although Asif took her to Muscat along with him after 20 days of their marriage, Reshma returned home voluntarily on Monday.

While she confided to her parents about problems in her marriage last Tuesday, she ended her life the very next day.

Heartbroken

Reshma, a graduate in Arts, had been married to one Abdul Fasooq from Belvai, three years ago. The marriage ended in a divorce after which Reshma lived with her parents.

A while following the divorce, Asif, a resident of Hangarkatte, who lived with his parents Mehrunissa and Ismail in Muscat had proposed to marry Reshma, informing that his first wife Shiba had died of cancer.

Once her family consented to the proposal, Reshma was married to Asif. She left to Muscat to live with Asif, his parents and his son Ashraf from his first marriage.

However, Reshma claimed that she was tortured by her in-laws to the extent that she was made to eat and stay in the bathroom. While they kept her away from Asif, she was made to do all the household chores. Despite all this, her in-laws would complain about Reshma to Asif unnecessarily, following which Asif used to beat her up black and blue.

Reshma had informed about her plight to her parents over the phone and on October 7, she returned to her parents in Karkala.

Suicide note

Reshma left behind a suicide note in which she has clearly blamed Asif and his parents and held them responsible for her death.

She articulated her pain and said that she was kept like a 'servant' by his family.

A case has been registered in Karkala police station under Section 498 in the Indian Penal Code.

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October 7,2024

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Mangaluru, Oct 7: In a heartbreaking turn of events, the search for Mumtaz Ali, chairman of Misbah Group of Educational Institutions, ended with the discovery of his mortal remains in the Phalguni river near Kulur. The somber discovery came after an exhaustive search, leaving a community in shock and sorrow.

He is the younger brother of former MLA Mohuiddin Bawa and former MLC B M Farookh. 

The incident has taken a deeply distressing turn with the filing of an FIR against six individuals, including a woman, who are accused of pushing Ali to a tragic end. 

The accused allegedly blackmailed Ali, fabricating a story about his involvement in an illicit relationship with the woman. Reports suggest that they extorted Rs 50 lakh from Ali and were unrelenting, demanding an additional Rs 50 lakh from him, casting a shadow over his final days.

The complaint, lodged by Ali’s grieving brother, accuses these individuals of driving him to despair through relentless blackmail and false accusations, ultimately leading him to take the tragic step.

In the early hours of Sunday, Ali left his home at 3 am, heading towards Suratkal, perhaps seeking some solace. A minor accident occurred when his car collided with a private bus near MCF. Despite the mishap, he offered a heartfelt apology to the bus driver and conductor—a gesture that now echoes with the pain of his unspoken struggles. After the collision, Ali made a U-turn near Panambur circle, driving back towards Kulur bridge, where his journey came to a sorrowful end.

Ali’s last moments hold an even deeper sadness, as he left behind a voice message in Byari, naming an individual who had been tormenting him mentally. Sent to his daughter and a close friend, the message revealed the unbearable burden he was carrying, hinting at his final decision to end his suffering.

This tragic loss has left the community and his loved ones grappling with unanswered questions and a profound sense of grief. As the investigation unfolds, the memory of Mumtaz Ali lingers, a reminder of the silent battles that too often go unseen.

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October 1,2024

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The BJP has selected Kishore Kumar Puttur as its candidate for the bypoll to Karnataka Legislative Council from Dakshina Kannada and Udupi Local Authorities’ Constituency. The by-election will be held on October 21.

Kishore Kumar is presently serving as the General Secretary of Dakshina Kannada BJP unit. He had served as vice president of State BJP Yuva Morcha from 2014 to 2016.

The by-election will be held to the seat vacated by Kota Srinivas Poojary of the BJP who has been elected as the Lok Sabha member from Udupi-Chikmagaluru Lok Sabha constituency. The vacancy was created on June 15, 2024 following Poojary’s resignation to the Council. His term in the council was till January, 2028.

In the last Council election held for the dual member constituency in December 2021, Poojary had secured 3,672 votes while the Congress candidate Manjunath Bhandary had secured 2079 votes. Poojary and Bhandary had secured required votes from the first preferential votes and had won the election.

There were several aspirants for the BJP ticket including former MP Nalin Kumar Kateel, DK BJP president Satish Kumpala, Mangaluru divisional in-charge Uday Kumar Shetty, former minister Pramod Madhwaraj and former Udupi district BJP president Kuilady Suresh Nayak.

The Congress is yet to announce its candidate for the election. KPCC working president Manjunath Bhandary in a recent press meet in Mangaluru had said that an opportunity will be given to congress leaders from Udupi district to contest by-election.

The Dakshina Kannada and Udupi Local Authorities’ Constituency has 6037 voters including 3551 from Dakshina Kannada comprising eight MLAs, one MP. The last date for filing nomination is October 3 and the last date for withdrawal of nomination is October 7. The counting will be held on October 24.

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